So there I was, about three years ago…
My six-year-old was half his age. I was still knee-deep in
stuff that was killing my system. I was four years into sensing the Angels and
starting to make some headway on the things in our systems causing all of our
difficulties internally, and it was painful still.
I’m wicked “energy-sensitive,” which translates to: anything
that stings a little, stings a lot. And for us energy-sensitives, an emotional
pain usually has a stinging physical component.
Did I mention the world “sting” in the same sentence as “energy
sensitive?” Good.
So, I’m sitting there, worried about the things the world worries about –
whatever is on the news, plus whatever is stinging the hell out of my system
from the absolutely abject breakdown I was still recovering from...
And I give my three year old…NOT the beating of a lifetime
(not like he didn’t deserve it more than once or twice)…NOT the evil eye…BUT..
Chocolate milk.
And then, I learned, from the wisdom of a three year old
who was dancing to the beat of chocolate milk pouring down his throat after raining
sugary goodness all over every one of his taste buds, that the economy, gas prices,
terrorism…none of that could hold a thing to chocolate frickin’ milk.
Because to that three year old, it was as if all of the
things, all of the “problems” in the world that we adults were so “powerless” against…they
all just got unapologetically danced on like they were ants being stepped on by an elephant.
So what did I learn from that very special day three years
ago?
That it’s not gurus or presidents or gluten-free anything
that’s going to save us.
It’s Chocoalte Goddamn Frickin’ Milk.
It’s potentially true, that my three year old (at the time)
is of different preferences than you, as to what would make you dance all of
the problems in your life away for whatever amount of time something equally
endearing is doing as some sort of slow-dance with your own taste buds.
Mine is blackberries. Time stops when I eat blackberries.
What is yours?
And why the hell don’t you have more of them, more
often?
And for God’s sake, don’t comment with “orgasms”. Time always
stops for those. It’s just how we’re wired.
(If you have to put that , then you’re really not getting
enough of those, are you?)
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Three Energy Therapies You Must Know For Your Life to Be Everything It Could Be – Part 4 of 4
Posted by Paul Greblick,
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
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In the first three parts of this article series, you learned
how important it is to get stored emotional energy out of your system. You were
then introduced to two physical-based “energy therapies” that could do this
exceptionally well.
Those two processes – EFT and TAT – are incredibly
beneficial for what they do, and what they offer, but with the limitations of
time limits and privacy needed to do them, there is some room for improvement
for anyone wanting to get to wholeness as fast as possible.
So something else was needed. Something that could be done
anytime, anywhere, to help people become free not only from emotional discord,
but also become unstuck from unhealthy or negative situations, as well as
unblocking from anything that would make life totally positive in whatever way
it was currently lacking - and do it in a way that is was fast, easy, and
gentle as possible.
Enter Inner influencing
Inner Influencing is my own creation, designed to overcome
the limitations of the two physical-based modalities that were previously
mentioned.
The ideas for Inner Influencing came under the guidance and
direction of the Angels (I AM known as “The Angel Guy” after all – read my bio
for more info on that). It was developed from a need to go further, faster ,
and get there as quickly as possible. And it was developed from my own need to
heal and recover from a really serious breakdown.
Once I knew how well, and how fast this worked, I was
directed (from above, so to speak) to share it with others.
Inner Influencing takes full advantage of a new discovery
about how we can interact with the subconscious to remove the discordant energy
in our systems, which cause more difficulties than you could ever imagine and
that keep us in negative situations and keeping us FROM positive ones.
It involves the full use of something like a subconscious
“helper” or inner “assistant” to its full capacity.
And many people are reporting results in ways that couldn’t
be achieved with other modalities.
One advantage Inner Influencing has over some other
modalities, including the other two, is that you don’t need to be in distress
at that moment in order to have relief from the problem. The two physical
processes mentioned before – both EFT and TAT – tend to work best to eliminate
the distress if you are currently experiencing it at them time.
In fact, EFT has to help FORCE this with use of a “reminder”
phrase.
Not so with Inner Influencing.
It works just as well “from a distance” as well as when a
problem “in your face”. You only have to be aware that a former difficulty or
issue isn’t completely gone, or that a future potential one exists, and you can
start to get emotional relief from it right away, once you learn the system.
The one drawback of Inner Influencing is that it takes a
little longer to learn than some of the other modalities, in order to apply it well
and to achieve the most comprehensive results.
But this is only because it involves extensive methods to
“target” the hidden subconscious factors that are contributing to any
difficulty or issue with an emotional component to it. This targeting
methodology has been praised with being the reason some people were able to go
further with Inner influencing than they could with other modalities.
I used to teach inner influencing only to my private clients,
who found out about me through word of mouth. But I have created an e-course that
can help you achieve these same results at a much lower cost than working with
me directly.
For more information on this E-course, including a free
e-book on how to get some results right away, as well as an introductory
webinar on what Inner Influencing is, and what it can do for you please go to www.InnerInfluencing.com/ecourse.php
Three Energy Therapies You Must Know for Your Life to Be Everything it Could Be – Part 3 of 4
Posted by Paul Greblick,
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If you’ve read parts one and two, you were introduced to how energy therapies can contribute to your continued emotional health and well-being.
Part two introduced the first of three of these, called
“EFT” (Emotional Freedom Techniques), which involves a special method of
tapping on very specific acupuncture points, in order to get relief from the
subconscious emotional energy stored in the body.
The next of the three energy therapies we are doing to take
a look at, is a wonderful technique called “TAT.”
TAT – Tapas Acupressure Technique
TAT was developed by a woman named Tapas Fleming. (That’s
her first name in the first “T” of “TAT”.)
It involves lightly touching a small number of acupuncture
points (but holding the touch, instead of tapping, thus why it’s called
“acupressure”) while thinking of the distressful situation, and then some other
thoughts related to its resolution.
TAT is an EXTREMELY effective tool on emotional trauma. The
combination of points and the method she uses really helps to remove the
“sting” of the effects, while the body is readjusting and realigning from the
experience that was so traumatic.
I have used TAT a number of times on myself,f and have
worked with it on others, and can say it’s extremely effective in this.
TAT is SO potent, however, that the developer limits its
recommended use to 15 minutes per day. A limitation that could seriously damper
the forward momentum needed if you were dealing with multiple traumas on
multiple levels like I was due to my very intense breakdown.
Nonetheless, it’s still an effective tool to have in your
arsenal.
The combination of TAT and EFT is a very good pair of tools
to have in your inner work tool box, because unlike EFT, which focuses on
specific events, TAT does well with more general topics or issues.
So, knowing this, it would seem like this combination of
tools would take you “all the way there,” right?
In theory, this would be so.
But the combination of having to do a physical process (tap
or hold certain points on the body) makes it less accessible in public
situations. And with EFT having to get very specific, and TAT only being
“officially” do-able for 15 minutes per day, there can be a lot of gaps in your
day, where you would have to experience distress or difficulty longer than you
need.
So something else is needed to fill the gaps to be able to
take it all the way.
The next modality could certainly do that, and has none of
the limitations of the two processes. It is completely done mentally, thus
removing the accessibility issue with the other two, and has no limitation as
to how often it could be used in a day’s time.
I still recommend TAT to my private clients, as is still a
valuable tool to have in our “inner tool box.” Please see www.tatlife.com for a free e-book on “How to
do TAT”.
Three Energy Therapies You Must Know For Your Life to Be Everything It Could Be – Part 2 of 4
Posted by Paul Greblick,
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In part one of this four part series, you learned why, if you wanted to experience the best life possible, it is necessary to go further than just the traditional self-help techniques like affirmations, visualization, etc.
The only thing you can experience is thoughts and feelings,
and subconscious stored feelings (generally negative feelings from difficult
past experiences) are at the root of so many of your current major difficulties
– from emotional distress, to stuckness in a certain area, and the inability to
move forward to a life that’s right for you.
So – enter the “energy therapies” to help save the day and
remove the subconscious stored emotional energy, without the years (and
marginal results) of expensive therapy.
EFT – Emotional Freedom Techniques
EFT is a process that involves tapping on a certain number
of acupuncture points that have to do with the emotional system, and doing so
in a unique way.
EFT effectively targets the emotional energy in the body
that is causing very specific emotional difficulties – and eradicates it with
alarming speed and comfort.
Once you learn the points to “tap,” and the way to word the
“reminder phrase,” which exposes the difficult emotion associated with the topic
of distress, you’re off and running, able to “tap away” any sort of emotional
distress you can find.
So to have complete peace and balance, it sounds like you
would simply have to find every single negative though-feeling combination in
your system and then “EFT” them out, right?
Yes.
But unfortunately it’s not always realistic to implement.
This is because EFT’s targeting methods tend to work best on
very specific events.
EFT is very, VERY good for helping to eliminate distressful
experiences, just because of its ability to “target” the energy in very
specific events or situations. In fact, the more specific you can get, the more
results you will get…on that one specific thing you are targeting.
And this is why EFT as a solo remedy is not comprehensive
enough.
It would take you a thousand “rounds” of EFT just to scratch
the surface of a whole life experience, and a thousand more just to get to any
of significant depth.
Does this mean that EFT does not have value or is not worth
learning?
EFT is most definitely worth learning. I teach my private
clients to use it as a “fallback” for using with some of the more advanced
methods (the inwardly-directed, mentally applied ones), for situations or
difficulties that are difficult to eradicate completely if the person is still
in the learning stages with those new methods.
Compared to the newest method, EFT IS slow, but its ability
to remove distressful emotional energy is the reason for its popularity. (That,
and because it’s one of the first of its kind.)
Though I don’t go that far into EFT anymore with my clients
who I teach how to get to the root of the subconscious negative functioning, I
let them know that it’s an important tool to learn and know. It can be a good
foundation for an understanding of how their systems store the energy that
causes the weakness and imbalances.
You can learn the basics of EFT for free with a free e-book
available from www.eftuniverse.com
Stay tuned for the next energy therapy – one that doesn’t
“tap” but still uses the way the body stores this energy to your advantage in
removing it.
Three Energy Therapies You Must Know For Your Life to Be Everything It Could Be – Part 1 of 4
Posted by Paul Greblick,
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The self-help world is full of many techniques and processes that promise to move you ahead in life, get you out of difficulty, or both.
Positive thinking, visualization, affirmations, subliminal
and self-hypnosis audios – there seems to be no end to the different types of techniques
and processes – some passive, some more active – that promise to help you get
to where you want to go in your life.
Heck, you could sweat lodge (to death – literally, which
happened in Arizona thanks to James Arthur Ray), rain dance, or even drum or
chant your way to who-knows-what ideal end result.
The “problem” is that each of these of these things DO work.
Meaning, that they do SOMETHING - they will have some noticeable results.
Many people, though, are finding that these interesting
techniques are, well, sometimes just that – interesting techniques that don’t
seem to be as universally applicable in scope or depth in regard to the
vastness and richness of our lives and needs as humans.
After all, even the most staunch positive thinking or
affirmations advocate will admit that sometimes
they just don’t work, even “most” of the time. And without really
understanding why, or even wanting to admit this lack of understanding.
After a dedicated commitment to find out what caused a very
intense breakdown that left me without relief for seven whole years, I think
I’m pretty sure why.
And not only that, I found out what to do about it.
First of all, know that there are only two things that make
up your entire human experience - thoughts, and feelings. That’s it. Ain’t
nothing else going to be part of your day to day experience.
Of those two things, the one that has the most potency – the
one that causes ALL of the problems – is feelings, or emotions.
Why? Because emotions, or feelings, have a literal electric
charge and energetic pressure in your body, that you can actually feel (hence the term
“feelings”). A difficult emotion that won’t go away is like having a stun gun
held to your body without letting go.
This emotional “energy” accumulates the older you get, with
the amount of energy stored in your system at any moment, equal to the number
of negative experiences from the past where all of the difficult emotions you
experienced, weren’t completely discharged at the time.
Where does this energy accumulate?
This is where it gets interesting.
It accumulates in your subconscious.
Do you know the part of you that the subconscious uses to
store this in?
YOUR BODY.
It stands to reason, therefore, that getting this negative
emotional energy out of your body would be the ideal way to solve a lot of
issues for you.
But, short of some kind of magical emotional surgery, how do
you get this collected emotional energy from the past out? It is still
affecting you every time you think of the subject itself, and sometimes it can
still have such intensity that you can’t HELP but think about it, maybe even
continuously.
Well, that’s what this article is going to teach you.
It will teach you about three methods that are called, in
fact, “energy therapies,” that do a wonderful job of getting this emotional
energy out of your “subconscious body container” without you having to go
through a lot of emotional turmoil just to get it out.
These three methods are what you can’t afford NOT to know if
you want to remove (and stay free of) emotional turmoil, free yourself from
stuckness, and remove the inner blocks to more peace and success.
(Continued in part 2)
The Fine Line Between Persuasion and Manipulation
Posted by Paul Greblick,
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
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I am strong advocate for people’s freedom – most notably, their
inner freedom, and their inner strength. And I’m willing to show everyone to
whatever extent they would like exactly how their inner systems work for their
OWN benefit.
But until everyone knows how their own systems work, and
could thus be used against them, I’m afraid that most people could be on the
receiving end of some terrible, terrible things that in our culture are
currently being passed off as ok.
The Exposure of Subliminal Advertising.
Dr. Wison Bryan Key is a researcher and college professor
who wrote several now out-of-print books dealing with the pervasiveness of
subliminal advertising as used by the media and marketing in the 70’s and 80’s.
He noted that when he was teaching college classes on how
subliminal advertising works and it’s discreet (or sometimes not-so-discreet)
use, his students fell into one of two general categories.
One was those students who wished to learn how subliminal
advertising works to increase their own understanding of how their own
subconscious works, and how to protect themselves and others from this type of
manipulation.
The other type of student that he noticed attended his
classes had no interest in serving the needs of others, but only to how to use
this material to persuade and manipulate people for their own personal agendas
– manipulation, greed, control, etc.
NLP – Superhero? Or Supervillain?
When NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) arrived on the scene,
it was heralded as the next great victory in the evolution of the understanding
of the human psyche. One that could be used for great therapeutic value.
But the Tony Robbins' of the world and other “advocates” of
these techniques have advocated and publicized their use, not only counter to
healing, but what could only be summed up as full-frontal manipulation.
There have been countless seminars, workshops, even books
that describe how to use NLP to force the decision for the sale, to force someone
to “see it your way”, and even the most disgusting one, of forcing their will
or manipulation to entice intimate encounters or even full-fledged
relationships where the other party wouldn’t even consider the person
otherwise.
NLP is good for therapeutic reasons, bad for sales, and
worse for trying to get someone in an intimate encounter or relationship that’s
not totally right for them. And it’s NOT totally right for them if you have to
use ANY sort of persuasion tool or manipulation device to get them to agree to
it, like it or not, bad as that may sting the egos of some of the people
advocating this sort of thing.
I have never been more disgusted to be a member of this
human race to see the level and depth of ANY sort of manipulation of someone
else’s thoughts, feelings, or inner state to justify a person’s own hidden
agenda which doesn’t even account the other person’s care or well-being.
Those who are doing this will rationalize to the cows come
home, but it doesn’t matter, and you won’t change my mind on it, because what’s
happening IS what’s happening, no matter how you want to justify it to
yourself.
Just remember, if you’re not using tools such as NLP to
benefit the other person COMPLETELY with no cost or sacrifice to them, you’re
engaging in serious manipulation, and this is not something that “those
upstairs” are going to put up with any longer.
Those who know me and my background with helping people
connect to their Angels know I’m here to help people defend themselves from
this very thing - to help people understand the depth of how their systems
work, and the depth of how they can be used, manipulated, and abused by others.
AND TO STOP THAT FROM HAPPENING, by educating people so they can naturally defend themselves.
And if you’re one of those who is currently engaging in any
sort of NLP or other tools FOR PUSHING YOUR WAY ON OTHERS or to get your own agenda met where the person wouldn't agree to it WITHOUT having to be "NLP'Dd, this is nothing short of manipulation of the person's mind, the person's body, the person's inner being, and even the person's soul.
And it’s going to be a really sad day for you when those who
have been on the receiving end of your ruse and disguise wake up to what
they’ve been going through, through no fault of their own but their own lack of
ability to defend themselves.
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